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Posted by Leanne <cornerofficenoview@yahoo.com> on Wed, 14 Mar 2007, in response to Born in Syracuse, NY April 1979, posted by Stephen Kohanski on Wed, 06 Apr 2005

I guess I don't understand. Do you get enjoyment from not only seperating yourself from your family, but occasionally hurting them as well? I still confuses me to this day how you got married and then disappeared from the family. Yeah maybe you should of been told about this a long time ago, but that doesn't justify how you treat your family now. How do you walk away from a family that has loved and cared for you through everything? It confuses me even more why someone from the family would want to help you with this quest of yours after how you have treated us all. I personally don't know what changed after you got married, frankly I don't care anymore. Your mother is still your mother, that will never change. Its none of my business how you live your life or what choices you make. However, when your actions and words begin to emotionally drain my family, it becomes my business. Why wouldn't you call someone who knows about this situation, instead of plastering it all over this website for everyone to see how you walked away from your family. Seems to me that you are spending an awful lot of time trying to find someone who wants nothing to do with you. Time that could be spent with the people who have missed you since you disappeared. Some of the family would say "forgive and forget", not me. I can't justify what you have done so far or what you are continuing to do. I appreciate you making the effort to show up to mine and Dave's wedding. The wedding was perfect, you should of been there, I'm not surprised you weren't though. Well I hope your personal quest to find this guy helps you somehow realize what you walked away from for, how many years now? Good luck................by the way who was the best man at your wedding?

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